"Take a lover who looks at you like maybe you are magic."
Why I am single
People ask me all the time why I am single and there are a lot of answers I can give you, like:
- people are dumb
- people lie
- relations are hard
- relationships cost money
- people drink
- people just want sex
- people cheat
- Dating is stupid
And so on.
But non of them are true, although it’s fun to say and I get tired saying what the real reason is and the reaction I get.
The real reason is because I am old-fashioned, as they describe it I wouldn’t call myself that, and I don’t see the point in dating guys when I know it would not last. I don’t see the point of being with someone for awhile and knowing it will be over anytime soon. Of course I’ve dated guys and had a boyfriend and it was fun, but pretty fast I knew it wouldn’t last so I stopped dating them and that maybe is hard but as soon as I realize it won’t last I fall out of love and it just feels like a burden. Well that sound dramatic.. But anyway that’s the reason of me not dating and I am not ashamed of it.
It is not something to be ashamed of, I just haven’t found my one jet. And he can be here any minute but it also can take him some more years and in the mean time I will just keep on having fun and meet more people and fall in love and maybe out of it again.
And in the end I will find my one. Happy ever after.
what i mean when i say “i can’t do that” - the depression edition
- i am unable to do that
- i don’t have the energy to do that
- i cannot wrap my head around what you’re asking me to do
- there is too much in my head right now
- i can not do that
what people hear:
- i am unwilling to do that
- i am being stubborn for no reason
- i am being dramatic
- i am lazy
- i need you to repeat that only louder
- i need a push
- i don’t want to do that
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"Smart girls are the overthinkers, the insecure ones, the different ones. They know what the real world is like. They analyze every little thing in life. Why? To avoid getting hurt. To find happiness. They stay up at night trying to think about every possible situation to get through all the problems. They think too much. They trust fewer people. Their insecurity proves their respect toward themselves. Of course they try to live away from a drama-filled life. Smart girls know their worth. Now those are the ones worth keeping by your side."
“I look at my life and think, ‘There’s not enough time.’ I co-directed my last two videos, and I have this dream of being behind the camera and one day directing my own movie. I want to host my own show and be a younger Oprah. I want to write songs for other artists. I want to be an author. I want my own makeup line, and my own skincare line. I want to do a lot more philanthropy work, and for a while there I thought I wanted to go to law school.”
(Source: demetriaslovato, via lolohotregui)